How to Take Part in a Conversation
A conversation is an exchange of information between two or more persons. Those involved in a conversation are expected to talk and listen well. They should also practice good manners to avoid misunderstanding. Are you a good conversationalist? Study these reminders and find out.
He knows many topics to talk about. He expands his knowledge by reading.
As a listener, he avoids interrupting the speaker and shows interest in what the speaker says.
As a speaker, he speaks clearly in a well-modulated voice. He uses an opener to start the conversation.
He does his share of talking and gives other a chance to do theirs. While thinking of a response or a question, he uses a filler, which is a word, a phrase, or a clause found at the beginning of a sentence. It fills the sometimes awkward pause while the speaker thinks of an answer or a question for the listener.
He uses a shifter when he wishes to change the topic of the conversation. The shifter will announce to his listener that he is moving on to another topic.
If he has to leave while the conversation is going on, he does so courteously and quietly.
He closes the conversation with a closing expression, or a leave-taking.
As mentioned, a dialogue has four elements: openers, fillers, shifters, and closing expressions. Study the conversation that follows to see how these four elements are used.
COUNSELOR: Hi, Helen.
HELEN: Good morning, Mrs. Lacson. Can I do something for you, Ma’am?
COUNSELOR: Well, could you help me complete the first year records?
HELEN: Yes, Ma’am. When do you need me?
COUNSELOR: Well, let me see. Can you come at 4 P.M. tomorrow?
HELEN: I’m not sure, Ma’am. Miss Cruz said we may have a homeroom period tomorrow.
COUNSELOR: I’ll talk to Miss Cruz, then. By the way, do you think your mother will let you stay as late as 6 P.M?
HELEN: I’ll ask her, Ma’am.
COUNSELOR: Wait a minute. Why don’t I send her a note?
HELEN: Oh, That may be better, Ma’am.
COUNSELOR: Helen, I don’t know how to thank you.
HELEN: That’s alright, Ma’am. May I go now?
COUNSELOR: Sure. Goodbye!
In the dialogue you have read, which are openers? fillers? shifters? closing expressions? Think of other expressions that you can add to your list. Try using them in your conversation.